Seeking a family
Hello!
Why do these ads always feel a little bit like a resume cover letter?
Anyway, here goes
I will make this simple, and hope that the person who is meant to find me will.
I am 54 and looking for something perhaps "different" than most. I am not looking for the "perfect man" but rather the perfect family just for me.
I never had of my own, despite years of trying and wanting that life for myself. At this stage in my life I find myself divorced yes, I am long over that, with an extended family of nieces, etc. I am not as close to them as I would like. I have realized in the past couple of years that you cant really go back in time, it is only possible to move forward and that is what I am trying to do. No bad feelings, I love my family dearly, it is just hard to re build relationships when you have lived far away for a very long time.
I am a short, cute redhead, and most would say I am fun and outgoing. I love the outdoors and all things involving nature; hiking, camping and such. I also appreciate a night at home with all that entails I bake a mean apple pie and believe it or not I actually know how to sew, play the piano, and make homemade jam. Yep old fashioned girls still exist out here! I am as comfortable in stilettos, as I am in my hiking boots, and plan on wearing BOTH well into my seventies. I have a "real" job with excellent benefits, no baggage, debt, bad attitudes and I believe in kharma, and paying it forward.
I am looking for a family yes, thats right, a family. No, not a threesome! But, a man who is close to his and grand and is looking for a woman to be a part of that life. In other words, I missed being a Mom, I think it is only fair that I get to skip straight to Grammy! I dont look like one, act like one, and trust me you will NEVER be bored, but I miss the closeness and support of spending that time with a family unit. I am fairly new to Spokane, so I havent had much time to form close friendships yet. Would you like to share yours? I would love it if you would BBQ, birthday parties, karaoke, just getting together with people that you know and care about. I miss that connection, and I am afraid that because I moved around so much in my past life, my best friendships are scattered everywhere so visits are few and far between.
If you are SINCERELY looking for such a woman? Please send me a reply. If you are looking for easy sex, short term relationships, or you arent speaking to your immediate family? If you rarely talk to friends, and consider yourself a "lone wolf" Just please keep on looking at ads. We wont be a good match, ultimately I spent years trying that, and it doesnt work no mater how hard you try.
Pictures are greatly appreciated, and I will respond happily with mine.
Maybe you feel like you are missing a partner in your life who wants to happily and actively love and support the people that meant the most to you? Maybe you are tired of being in relationships with people that seem to resent the time your friends and family take in your life?
Maybe you would like to share your life with someone who has a lot to offer, without bringing a lot of drama and a steamer trunk full of issues with her?
Maybe you are looking for me?